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6 Things That Helped Me Through the First 6 Weeks After Loss
In the six weeks since losing my wife Lani to cancer, I’ve found myself faced with a choice: let grief pull me under, or meet it head-on with intention.
I chose to move. To eat well. To cry when I needed to. To honour her by living with strength.
These are six things I’ve done daily that helped me hold on to who I am — and slowly, begin to rebuild.